1 cup of friendly words 1 dash of gentle humor 2 heaping cups understanding 1 pinch spice of life 2 cups milk of human kindness 1 drop of warm personality 3 heaping Tbls time and patience Measure words carefully. Add cups of understanding to milk of human kindness. Sift together three times to make a smooth paste. Cook with gas on front burner. Keep temperature low so it never boils over. Season with gentle humor, warm personality and spice of life. Serve in individual molds. Works best with a good mixer.